Aloneness

When you are alone you are not alone, you are simply lonely–and there is a tremendous difference between loneliness and aloneness. When you are lonely you are thinking of the other, you are missing the other. Loneliness is a negative state. You are feeling that it would have been better if the other was there–your friend, your wife, your mother, your beloved, your husband. It would have been good if the other was there, but the other is not. Loneliness is absence of the other.
Aloneness is the presence of oneself. Aloneness is very positive. It is a presence, overflowing presence. You are so full of presence that you can fill the whole universe with your presence and there is no need for anybody.
- Osho The Discipline of Transcendence Volume 1, Chapter 2



When there is no “significant other” in our lives we can either be lonely, or enjoy the freedom that solitude brings. When we find no support among others for our deeply felt truths, we can either feel isolated and bitter, or celebrate the fact that our vision is strong enough even to survive the powerful human need for the approval of family, friends or colleagues. If you are facing such a situation now, be aware of how you are choosing to view your “aloneness” and take responsibility for the choice you have made.
The humble figure in this card glows with a light that emanates from within. One of Gautam Buddha’s most significant contributions to the spiritual life of humankind was to insist to his disciples, “Be a light unto yourself”. Ultimately, each of us must develop within ourselves the capacity to make our way through the darkness without any companions, maps or guide.


COMMENTS / 3 COMMENTS

細妹!!!!! ALONENESS!!我成日抽到既牌!!! 好深刻! 仲好記得第一次讀到時係叮一聲咁明唒,然後覺得好感動到流眼淚…

Wallis added these pithy words on Jul 28 07 at 0:56

e?? 食左我之前個留言???

Wallis added these pithy words on Jul 28 07 at 1:07

有丫, 你見唔到咩? @.@

M added these pithy words on Jul 30 07 at 21:24

SPIT IT OUT
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